I attended two weddings in the past week and ate like a Queen. Furthermore, my plate was the envy of many of my carnivorous table-mates. They said that while a filet sounded good 2 months prior, an hour of cocktails and hors d’ oeuvres left them craving something lighter for dinner. Enter my stuffed pepper and lentils on the first night, and my roasted vegetables and potatoes on the second. Both of which were actually quite good, and not just thrown together so the caterer could say they offer a veggie dish.
I’m always conscientious about being “high-maintenance” concerning my diet when I go to events – especially at someone else’s wedding where the focus shouldn’t be on me. However, I’ve found that there are discreet ways to get a healthy dinner without inconveniencing anyone. Here are two typical scenarios and how I deal with them:1. If the invitation gives you 2 or 3 choices, most likely none of them are vegan. When this happens, I send back my card with a note that reads, “Please don’t worry about a meal for me, as I follow a vegan diet (or vegetarian…or whatever applies,) and I don’t want you to spend money on a meal that will go uneaten. I’ll be quite content with the salad, good company, and of course a glass of wine!” While I truly mean this, each time I’ve done this the bride ordered a vegan meal anyway because she wanted her guests to be happy and comfortable.
2. Sometimes you are given a choice once you’re seated at the table. Here’s what I do: When the server comes around I quietly ask “I don’t want to be an inconvenience, but do you by any chance offer a vegetarian/vegan option, OR if not, could I possibly get a plate of what you are serving without the meat?” (In other words, just the veggies,potatoes,etc.) I have yet to be somewhere that they aren’t able to accommodate without hesitation.
Even with all of the positive experiences I’ve had, I don’t take anything for granted so I always carry a baggie of nuts or a snack bar in my purse. And, if there happens to be some veggie hors d ‘oeuvres during the cocktail hour I make sure to partake so I’m not starving when dinner begins.
My next hope for the future of catering is that all event venues will offer soy milk for coffee. Or, maybe non-dairy milk should be offered in the same size as those little airplane liquor bottles. This way a “low-maintenance” vegan coffee drinker such as myself can carry one in her clutch handbag!
2. Sometimes you are given a choice once you’re seated at the table. Here’s what I do: When the server comes around I quietly ask “I don’t want to be an inconvenience, but do you by any chance offer a vegetarian/vegan option, OR if not, could I possibly get a plate of what you are serving without the meat?” (In other words, just the veggies,potatoes,etc.) I have yet to be somewhere that they aren’t able to accommodate without hesitation.
Even with all of the positive experiences I’ve had, I don’t take anything for granted so I always carry a baggie of nuts or a snack bar in my purse. And, if there happens to be some veggie hors d ‘oeuvres during the cocktail hour I make sure to partake so I’m not starving when dinner begins.
My next hope for the future of catering is that all event venues will offer soy milk for coffee. Or, maybe non-dairy milk should be offered in the same size as those little airplane liquor bottles. This way a “low-maintenance” vegan coffee drinker such as myself can carry one in her clutch handbag!